G'Day and welcome to the forums
You have indeed got a serious problem. You need to stop using the shower to prevent any more water damage. then go downstairs and drill several holes into the ceiling to let out any excess water that may still be in the ceiling cavity. To prevent it falling down.
Next you will have to establish where the water is leaking from. Remove the taps in the shower, if the holes cut in the tiles have not been sealed with silicone this could be a cause of water penetration, also the waste grate may be leaking as well, also the way the shower tray is fitted to the walls could be another pont of water entry.
The easiest method will be the tapware if you remove the taps and the stems are not covered in silicone then water will be running down behind the taps and entering the wall cavity, use some clear silicone to plug the holes around the taps and spout allow to dry and run the shower again and check for leaks, if it continues to leak you need to eliminate another source of water entry. It could even be the plumbing itself which may need to be pressure tested by a plumber.